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Dave2024

Mechanicsburg, Pennsylvania | Man Seeking A Woman

Basic Information

First name
Dave
I Can Speak
English
I Would Describe Myself As
The following is a self-description I wrote previously for a different match site which I’ve since updated. It and the following Match Description remain the most authentic expressions of who I am and who I would be interested in meeting.

My Description:

I currently live in Mechanicsburg, PA but I’m a congregant of an adjoining parish. In my youth I had twelve years of Catholic education and my adult formation was influenced most by the Benedictine Order.
I'm a bookish, retired member of the military with a degree in biology who enjoys a good adventure. Not quite the Indiana Jones type but I’ve been willing to give almost anything a try.
I’ve also enjoyed doing things like teaching algebra to my fellow G.I.s and getting other's to go skydiving with me.
I grew up in a big city but have an earthy side to myself. I've never been, nor wanted to be, part of the "cool" crowd. I certainly like most geeky movies and enjoy New Age music but also enjoy theater, classical concerts, and prior to COVID treated myself to the opera once a year. The circle of friends I grew up with were known as people who wanted to swallow the world whole (poor as we were). If you're the type who can't get enough of the good, fun, and interesting things the world has to offer then you would have fit right in.
Discussing a great work of literature with friends gives me much pleasure. If you like playing the game of GO - you're a goddess!

My favorite quote: "People don't fall in love; they grow in love."

If I could shadow someone for a day it would be Dean Kamen or
Elon Musk.

For those familiar with the MBTI, I'm a INFJ / INTJ overlap.

That's a little of my story. Now I'd much rather hear yours.

Match Description:

Now who do I think would make a good match? Well ...

I admire most someone who exhibits “Gravitas” i.e. dignity, self-possession, and seriousness of purpose (without being grim).
I value a happy person who is not self-absorbed but rather is outwardly directed and who cares for and relates to people at a deep level.
I easily relate to people who are broad readers with a sense of exploration and adventure; people equally intrigued by technology as well as ideas, and who are joyful when they can satisfy their curiosity.
I respect people (whether religious or not) who understand the place of religion in human life and society.
I enjoy the company of good communicators who have instilled a sense of poetry into their lives and value the clarity and beauty that can come from language.

A creative, college educated, non-smoker with no tattoos or excessive piercing - now that would be a most welcome set of traits.
Sign
Taurus

Appearance & Situation

My Body Type Is
Average
My Height Is
5' 8 (1.73 m)
My Eyes Are
Brown
My Marital Situation Is
Single
I Have Kids
No
I Want Kids
No
Body Art
Wouldn't Even Think About It
My Hair Is
Salt And Pepper
I Have One Or More Of These
No pets
Willing To Relocate
No

Status

My Education Level Is
University Degree
My Current Employment Status Is
Retired
My Speciality Is
Military
I Live
Alone
At Home
All Is Calm
I'm A Smoker
No
I Drink
Yes - Socially

Personality

Back In High School, I Was A
Nerd
My Social Behavior Is
Reserved, Observant, Friendly
My Interest And Hobbies Are
Religion / Spirituality, Family, Dining, Exercising, Reading, Learning, Movies
My Idea Of A Great Time Is
Hanging Out With Friends, Staying At Home, Trying New Things, The Movies, Reading A Book, Going To A Concert, Going To A Museum
An Ideal First Date Would Be
Casual over coffee so we can feel relaxed as we get to learn about each other.
I've Always Wanted To Try
Hot air ballooning.
Learning ballroom dancing.
My Friends Describe Me As Being
Friendly

Views

My Religion Is
Catholic
I Attend Services
Every Day
My Political Views Are
Conservative
My Goal In Life Is
To find an intelligent, virtuous, attractive, Catholic woman to share my faith and the joys the world has to offer, and to personally grow in Catholic manhood.
My Kind Of Humor Is
Friendly, Obscure

Taste

On Tv, I Always Watch
I Don't Like Tv
When I Go To The Movies, I Always Go To See A
Science Fiction, Comedy, Documentary, Family
When Listening To Music, I Always Listen To
Pop, Classical, Blues, Jazz, New age, Ambient
When I Read, I Always Read
Auto-biography, Biography, Classic, History, Instructional, Mathematics, Nature, Philosophy, Religious, Science, Science Fiction, Technical
My Idea Of Fun Is
Exploring, learning, and laughing.

Looking for

What Do You Find Attractive?
Wit, Empathy, Great Skills, Humor, Good Looks, Thoughtfullness, Intelligence
What Do You Look For?
Shared values, dignity, self-possession, outwardly directed, a caring nature, intelligence, curiosity, literate. Modest yet tasteful attire, good grooming, and a warm and sincere smile.
What Kind Of Relationship Are You Seeking?
Friend, Date, Intimate, Committed, Marriage